I’ve spent nearly a decade listening to stories about pain that doesn't show up...

https://mag-wiki.win/index.php/The_Invisibility_Tax:_How_to_Communicate_When_Your_Pain_Doesn%27t_Show

I’ve spent nearly a decade listening to stories about pain that doesn't show up on a scan, and I see it in my own home, too. Being told "you look fine" when you’re barely holding it together is a specific, isolating kind of hurt